Cyber Bullying #2

I think Bullying in general is horrible, never the less Cyber bullying. I spend a lot of time on the internet due to my line of work, but even before i started doing what I do, internet was still something i use the most. My home town is Springfield Oregon. If some of you remembered, a school shooting took place there. That was the first school shooting I've ever encounter. Even though i was fortunate enough not to be old enough to be in High School yet, but the experience of knowing how close I lived near the killer haunted me. I recently started doing some research of school shootings and teenage suicide and almost all of them have one thing in common, which was bullied. We can't blame these people just on calling them "Psycho." Destruction is an cause and effect. I don't have any kids yet, and it's probably one of the reason why I am still debating if I should have kids. If my mom knew all the bullying I've experienced as a kid, she would of died of heartaches. I am terrified of the world. I am terrified of someone else action to cause my kids harm. People simply don't understand what impact their boredom can do. I don't have kids yet, but I do have a younger brother. There is not one day that goes by where I don't worry about his safety. I pray to god to inflict all the bad things in life on me and keep him safe.

I write beauty blogs to get your attention, but attempting to influence you with knowledge are my intentions.

Please Visit Kristina Calco's page
Her story is similar and very touching. She is beautiful, but because of bullying she feels like she was not good enough to be human.

I read a lot of these stories because it's reality. Most people don't know about these things happening until they read or hear about it in the news. Most career choices are to make a living. If i have a choice I would dedicate my life spreading awareness.


  1. it is so sad how no one thinks about how their actions or words affect others. thank you janie for spreading awareness!

  2. Janie!! Your posts are always so great. Thank you!!!

  3. thats really sad :( yeah i had experienced being bullied when I was very young~elementary.
    i have no parents near me, and all kids treats me like i'm different...argghh i dont want to remember it x.x

  4. Hi Janie,
    Thank you for this post. I feel like there is not enough awareness with cyber bullying. Essentially, everyone is very fragile at a certain level; especially, kids. It's really heart breaking that almost every couple of week we turn on the news and hear about suicides due to any form of bullying rather it is online or in real life =(
    I watched the youtube video you posted and I'm still confuse why would anyone inflict such pain on a little girl.