A side from the fact we have been together for 7 years
A side from the fact that both of our families are expects us to get married
A side from the fact that we are at that age when we should start a family
The reason why it’s got to be him is because he really does treat me like a princess.
He took care of me when I was sick.
He loved me even at my worst.
He supports me when I am climbing to the top.
He loves my family as part of his.
He thinks I am funny, smart, and attractive.
He is crazy about me after all these years.
He puts up with me even if I was being demanding and unreasonable.
He puts up with my bad temper as if he deserved it.
He brings me food & water anytime I please no matter how far or close I am.
He will give me the best before he gets his share.
He chooses me over his own family when there was a time when we didn’t agree.
He looks forward to doing things that would please me and put a smile on my face.
To him, I am priceless and to have me as his wife is the greatest wealth he can gain. To me, I don't think there is another person out there who would and be able to treat me as well has he has.
How he got me to say yes:
He has been carrying the ring with him ever since our last trip to Canada. I guess he wanted to come along to LA is for this reason.
We were driving around Hollywood and the sun was really bright. He asked me to look in the bag for his sunglasses. I reached back and grabbed the bag and instead of glasses I saw a wooden box. I never would of thought within that box was a wedding ring. I honestly thought it was a tie clip or something because of the wooden box. The very spoiled me open the box disregarding the fact it wasn’t mind to be opened. I was shocked to find a wedding ring. The first thing that came to my mind was, oh this must be his mom’s, than he looked at me and said, “You weren’t suppose to find that. ” Vivi who was in the back seat immediately shout out “Omgosh.”At that moment I realized I messed up his plans. The look of disappointment on his face broke my heart. I close the box and put it back in the bag and told him, “I would have said no anyways.”
The whole day he was troubled by the fact that the surprised was ruined and he had no idea how to make it special now that I’ve already seen the ring. When night came and Disney was doing the firework, he told to me “This was how it was suppose to happen. If you didn’t find the ring I would have proposed to you right now. Now I don’t know what to do.”
After he said that I felt so bad, but I told him my decision was firm, I wasn’t ready for marriage yet and I was kind of mad at the fact it took him so long to pop the question.
He was so sad, he told me he brought the ring awhile ago and was waiting for the right time. He was also afraid I would say no so that is also the reason why he waited.
He told me the reason why it took him so long because in his eyes I was worth so much more than just any ring. He saved for 6 years to $9000.00 ring. He knows I am worth so much more, but in order to buy me the ring that I am really worth that means he has to wait even longer, and he was afraid if he doesn’t do it soon someone else is going steal me away.
Me: “Why do you want to marry me? I am so demanding, high maintenance, and I have the worst temper ever. I am not an ideal girlfriend or a wife. I mean I wouldn’t even date myself I wasn’t myself lol.
Him: “I know, but yet I am crazy about you.”
Him: “Honey will you marry me?”
Me: “No! You don’t even have flowers.”
Him:” I will make it up later. Honey will you please marry me?”
Him: “Janien Wang! (My Full name) I want to take care of you for the rest of my life. Will you be my wife?”
Me: “Giggles, yes ;) “
Me: “Err but this isn’t how I imagine my proposal to be. You better make it up on our wedding.”
My engagement wasn’t magical because I ruined it, but my decision was changed when he told me he was crazy about me. No date has been decided yet, probably sometime within the next year.
Can you guys believe it? I am going to be someone’s wife!